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Monday, January 19, 2009
HI. Coffee? minum

Maybe not.

Well, this IS gonna be a very long post.
Sometimes, I feel a long post, isn't very long.

Anyway, this is a post about me.
I think I'm a better person ahead in 2009! :D

Story goes like this.

Bf claimed he got a newly claimed bestfriend named Hidayah. I'm pretty much shocked cos I mean, he only started school for only a week and a half and he gets a bestfriend. To me, that is almost impossible. If she's a good friend, I totally understand, but in this case, she is a bestfriend. I started getting suspicious.

I got a mini arguement with bf but we settled it anyway. Bf then claimed she's just a "good friend". Right, sure.

Yesterday, I tonned with bf.
I fell asleep but it was cold so I woke up.
I saw his phone beside him, I couldn't resist, so I took the phone and read his Inbox. I totally knew I was invading his privacy but I saw him messaging her, so yeah, I couldn't help it. I read.

I was totally upset to what I saw/read.
This Hidayah is sms-ing my bf including words like "syg", "darl", "darling".
I mean, come on. How can you not be upset?

Thanks to my genius mind, I took her number and also Amir's number. Amir is bf's new gay bestfriend. Right.

So I planned to pretend I'm Amir and get every info right about her.
With the help of Syiq (cos she had unlimited sms-es), I did find out about her.

Being all shattered, I sms-ed her.
(I forward what I want to Syiq and Syiq pretends to be Amir and uses her number to sms Hidayah).

So this is what I found out, after asking questions like,
"u suker najib eh?", "u tau tk najib ade mataer", "oh, u ade boi kan".
I'm obviously good at this.

This Hidayah girl, reads the qu'ran (Wow. Pretty much harmless). She treats bf as a friend and not more. She has a boyfriend (I think). She calls/sms-es people with syg/darling and what not.

So yeah,
she asked for my number and I sms-es her the truth and that I was actually sms-ing her from the start.

She said, she will leave bf alone (thank god) and that she and him will only be friends in school and outside, enemies. I find that very unfair. I insist her being friends with him cos I find her harmless. Still, she says nothing can change what she says.

Extract of sms
"Listen here, as a women I understnad how u feel..daya tk berminat pon nak rampas najib from you. let's make a deal. i won't disturb your relationship and i won't contact najib anymore. i dun wan people think i 3rd parties.. daya da pena kena macam nie banyak kali and i dun wan 2 repeat my mistake. "

The words in red, read it.
MEANS, she kena banyak kali and she doesn't want to repeat her mistake.
BUT, ISN'T IS REPEATING? I MEAN, IT MUST BE SOMETHING SHE DID UNTIL SHE "PENA KENA MACAM NIE BANYAK KALI".

I'm assuming it's the way she sms.
I mean, please lor. I don't think she would like it if people sms "syg" and whatnot to her boyfriend right. I mean, maybe she should just walk in other people's shoes.
I mean, if she doesn't want to repeat her mistake, wouldn't she learn from it?
Apprently, it seems that she doesn't.

Well, that's that.
I pretty much think she's a nice girl. But I am gonna keep an eye open, just in case.

For me,
I think I've learnt how to NOT assume. I've always been assuming.
Like Rupert said, never assume cos it will be the ASS/U/ME. Means, ass of you and me. Which is pretty much true.

I think I'm growing, mentally. I AM 17 this year.
I'm pretty much proud of myself.
I think I've grown. I have to evaluate all this before accusing thus, in this case, I didn't anyhow actually accuse Hidayah of stealing bf.

I am a better person. At least now, my hearts contented.
:D

Oh, everybody makes mistakes.
I totally understand that. (:

I am tired.
Offffffff.

Ciao.